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I am a female bean eating, air swallowing, ageing gasbag!

July 29, 2011 by nurseplummer Leave a Comment

There is nothing pretty about that, except the honesty. I saw a healthy recipe today that consisted of white beans, olive oil, basil leaves, sea salt and a dab of balsamic vinegar. It looked yummy, especially since I love white beans. However (and that is a mighty big HOWEVER), I was concerned about creating this dish for guests, as I was certain that it would give me the dreaded PUBLIC GAS EXPLOSION.

I began thinking about how gas is generated in our gastrointestinal systems and is there a time of the month that we should be more concerned about how much fiber we consume. The beinggirl.com site had a brief paragraph about how gas is formed. For those of you who read my profile, you know I am a beinggirl.com women’s health expert. It is important for me that you know that experts help ensure accuracy by reviewing the health content on the site. Check it out, as there are all kinds of great health facts on beinggirl beyond just gas stuff. I digress.

The responses to the two questions below are copied from beinggirl.com:
Why do people fart? (Personally, I really don’t like the word fart and prefer a more medical term like flatulence or the common term of ‘gas’. The word fart seems so crass for some reason. My daughter would tell me that I am being a bit hypocritical. Oh well.)
A fart (flatulence) happens when your body gets rid of excess gas or air through the rectum. Gas builds up from the action of bacteria on undigested food, or air is swallowed while eating.
 
How can I control it?
While everyone has to fart, it can be somewhat controlled. Eat slower so you swallow less air. Don’t chew gum, which makes you swallow air. Cut down on sodas that produce gas. Substitute another high fiber food for major gas creators like beans or corn. Exercise also helps.”

In thinking about this further, I wondered if there’s a time of month when you have more gas explosions than another?

According to the National Institutes of Health Medline Plus discussion on abdominal swelling or distension, PMS can cause abdominal bloating. However, abdominal swelling doesn’t necessarily result in gas. Also, WebMD has a really interesting article on flatulence that you may want to check out. The content is referenced to its emedicine health section that has an editorial review board of MDs. You can go to WebMD and search flatulence. While I have seen some discussion, on other non-medically referenced sites, about the link to PMS and hormone changes, the WebMD article didn’t offer that as a reason for flatulence. For those reading this who say they do get gassy during PMS time, I say NO DOUBT. Are you eating more and do you crave foods you don’t necessarily eat when you aren’t PMSing – just asking.

Before I end my gas post, and very seriously, if you think you have excessive gas and anything has changed for you digestively, see your health care provider for an evaluation. Now, and not seriously, read below where I copied two humorous points from the WebMD article on flatulence:

History has numerous anecdotal accounts of flatulence, including Hippocrates himself professing, “Passing gas is necessary to well-being.” The Roman Emperor Claudius equally decreed that “all Roman citizens shall be allowed to pass gas whenever necessary.” Unfortunately for flatulent Romans, however, Emperor Constantine later reversed this decision in a 315 BC edict.

In the mid-1800s flatulence took center stage with the French entertainer Joseph Pugol (“Le Petomane”). Pugol was able to pass gas at will and at varying pitch, thereby playing tunes for sold-out shows at the Moulin Rouge. Such was his success that lesser competitors began to appear, including the Spaniard “El Rey” and the female Angele Thiebeau (later revealed as a fake using hidden air bellows).

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What is excellence in women’s health services?

July 26, 2011 by nurseplummer Leave a Comment

I have a friend who is a registered nurse and an attorney employed by a Health Maintenance Organization (HMO) type of institution as a lawyer. However, she has been a women’s health advocate for many years. Her HMO recognizes that and has asked her to serve on a community panel with the goal to develop strategies to improve local health care services for women.

She recently asked me what I think excellence looks like when it comes to women’s healthcare. I immediately thought of my physicians. Yes, I said physicians in the plural because I have an OBGyn (now strictly gynecology, since I am long past any OB needed services!), an internist (fortunately nothing more serious than colds, occasional stomach aches and biannual physicals), a dermatologist (to tell me that the spots on my face aren’t cancer but the result of sun and age), and an orthopedic surgeon (yes, I am a baby boomer who used to jog and ruptured a disc 12 years ago. Old back injuries just keep on giving and not in a good way). Two are women and two are men. I think all are excellent practitioners. The question is why do I think that and what does that have to do with women’s health services in the general. Read on and I will share some thoughts of what I think constitutes excellent women’s health services:

Treats me like a person, not just a generic no-name patient:
When I go to the doctor for a health care check-up or when I am ill, I want to be viewed as a total person. I am a mother, a grandmother, a wife, and a professional, vain, happy, in excellent health mostly, weigh more than I should or want, independent, menopausal and a health communicator. Actually, I am more than that, but the point being is that I not just a random person who comes into the office and then gets called the generic PATIENT. Even if it is a first visit, I want the physician and staff to call me by my name. I am not a stickler for first or last name, just want them to know my name and look me in the eye when we talk.

Has excellent credentials:
We moved to our current location almost 4 years ago from a city and state my husband and I had lived in for all of our adult lives. Needless to say, we left behind trusted medical specialists, dentists, ophthalmologists and hair stylists, amongst other service providers. Before making new appointments, I checked out who were part of the network for my health insurance provider. Then, I googled the doctors I was considering to make certain that they were board certified in their fields and had gone to well-respected universities. It was also helpful to review local medial review sites to see what others thought about the doctors. Then, I made my appointments with the thought that if I didn’t feel comfortable with the doctor, I could change practices. So far, I really like my choices.

Asks me questions to clarify and explains treatment options:
Years ago, I went to see a doctor because I was feeling really tired and worn out. At the time, my daughter was very young and active, I was working as a nurse on the afternoon or night shift, I was taking classes to earn my BSN in nursing and doing all of the other stuff that I enjoyed in the spare time that I had left. I told the doctor about all of my activities. In any case, the doctor took blood from me, which I assumed was to check to for anemia or something worse and prescribed a medication, which I hadn’t heard of before. He told me to take it for 2 months and then let him know how it was working. Before filling the prescription, I looked up the drug in the PDR (Physician’s Drug Reference). This was way before Internet! What I found was that the medication was an antidepressant. I couldn’t believe it! In hindsight, the doctor asked if I was depressed and I said something like NOT REALLY, but I do feel kind of down when I am so tired. In any case, I never filled the prescription, nor did I return to the doctor. He made a wrong assumption based on little information. While I don’t expect to sit in an office for hours, I do want to be told why the doctor prescribed as he did and not be coy. Obviously I am still aggravated about that.

Takes the team approach:
While my health care professional is the expert, I am the person that needs to adhere to any treatment options that are prescribed. We have to agree that I will do what is recommended or it won’t work. For example, I hate to take medication and would rather find ways to seek wellness without drugs. There are ways to help avoid problems, such as diet modifications if one is constipated or weight loss, physical therapy and exercise instead of pain medication. No doubt that there are times when medications are needed to fight infections or for other issues, but there are also precautions one can take to help avoid the need. An example is that I try to avoid visiting my grandchildren when they are coughing, sneezing and vomiting. Recently we were all vacationing together and 2 of the little ones were feverish, lethargic and hacking away. They were placed on antibiotics and felt better within 24-hours. Then, I got sick and took antibiotics too. The point I am making is that sometimes you have to do what you have to do in regards to meds, but sometimes there are other ways. It is important for me to have an HCP that works with me to develop other approaches to health and I consider that excellence in health care.

Stays current in their field of expertise:
Consumers today are kept apprised of advances in health care because of the ease of access of information on the Internet. We expect our health care providers to do the same. When I ask a question, I appreciate a nod from my doctor letting me know he is aware of what I read and why I am asking the question. We then have a brief talk about why or why not what I read is appropriate for my specific situation. Also, I want to hear from my HCP too about some new advance that can work for me. Once in awhile one of my HCPs will tell me about something he or she learned at a medical conference. That is big to me because I know they are interested in learning about the latest and greatest in research and practice and not just falling back on the old and outdated.

Ease of access or location, location, location:
One thing I have begun to appreciate lately are HCPs that have several office locations around the city. This way, I can book an appointment on the day of the week the doctor is in the office closest to where I live. Love when I don’t have to plan a half-day around a 15- minute office visit.

Summary: Note that I what I have included as components of women’s health services aren’t really specific to women’s health. They are aspect of clinical practice that could apply to both genders. Perhaps that is the key. I believe that the women’s health component is more related to a HCPs appreciation that I am a woman and that my treatment should be specific to my gender and my needs as a female consumer of health and wellness. To my friend: Sorry I wasn’t more helpful. Perhaps those reading this can offer suggestions that will be more insightful as your committee seeks to improve women’s healthcare services in your community.

Please post any ideas that I can pass along and THANK YOU!

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How to look good in photos!

June 28, 2011 by nurseplummer Leave a Comment

Actually, for me the title should be how NOT to look BIG in photos. UGH. For Father’s Day, my husband received a beautifully framed large family picture from my lovely stepdaughter. Everyone in the picture looks great, except me. And believe me, this is not false modesty. What a nice gift though, but I wish I could photo shop another me in the picture.

While thinking about this and looking through the beinggirl.com website, I found an article titled, How to Look Good in Pictures. I hadn’t seen it before, but wish I had read it previously so I could have applied some of the suggestions to recent family photo taking.

The beinggirl.com article includes tips on how to stand and what to wear. For example, avoid bright white clothing, as it will wash you out. The article also advised on how to hold your chin, to avoid circles under your eyes.

My very favorite tip is about how to look slimmer: “For those who want to look thinner in photos, position yourself at a 45-degree angle to the camera. Don’t press your arms against your sides. Keep them slightly away from your body to make them look svelter. Angling one hip toward the camera can make you shed pounds visually. To make your waist appear smaller, put your hands on your hips with thumbs pointed down in and you’ll always look good in pictures!”

Would you believe that I have been practicing the “how to look slimmer when being photographed” tip for those moments of spontaneous picture taking. This is the pose that I see celebrities taking when being shot on the red-carpet during awards shows, movie premiers and while shopping in the grocery and being caught by the paparazzi. While I don’t have people following me to take my picture, it is just as important to me to look good in family and friend pictures that will be visible to me, and others, for decades. Since I am uncoordinated and can’t even repeat Pilate’s exercises that I have done for years without looking at the instructor, it is important that I practice, practice and practice posing when ever I think about it. I posed recently in a department store parking lot and people nearby (that I hadn’t noticed before beginning) looked around to see who I was smiling at, then looked at me funny and walked further to the entrance to avoid me. Oh well!

While I am focusing on how to pose (since I am somewhat vain and controlling) the article also advises that you should try to “look natural”. The reason for that is you don’t want to loose the emotion that is present in spontaneous picture taking. I am all for that too. But believe me, emotion is something that I don’t have to practice! While I say that I would rather look bland than big, I do like the natural looks of joy in others that sometimes is evident when photos are taken. In fact, I agree with beinggirl, emotion can be the true essence of the photo when there are people present.

I posted a link below to the article. I would love to hear other suggestions anyone may have on how to look great when pictures are being taken. Hopefully they won’t require rehearsing!

http://www.beinggirl.com/article/look-good-in-pictures/?utm_source=wordpress&utm_medium=NursePlummer&utm_content=link20110628&utm_campaign=comm_mgr

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Pale is not a dirty word: In other words, tans are not a prom necessity!

May 10, 2011 by nurseplummer Leave a Comment

May is Melanoma Awareness Month. It is also the month of Proms, which means glamour, hair, nails, dresses, shoes and handbags. When in heavens name did tanned skin become part of the beauty ensemble??

To take a step back, I recently had a dear friend get diagnosed with malignant Melanoma. Within two weeks, he was gone. While this is crazy, it is too terribly true. As a result, his daughters, his widow and his dear friends, of whom I am proud to call myself, are committed to helping others avoid his horrid fate. I miss him lots. This blog is dedicated to Marky!

A conversation that was overheard recently at a spa (I do get pedicures on a vibrating chair in a room with pleasant therapeutic aromas) was a teen talking on a phone to a friend about scheduling her tan time at a local salon to prepare for prom. Well ladies: Sun tanning salons presents a risk of skin cancer, along with natural sun tanning.

Let’s talk some facts: The statistics about this most dangerous form of skin cancer are alarming.  It is the eighth most common cancer in the US and its incidence is increasing faster than any other cancer over the past 20 years.  It is now the most common cancer in young adults aged 25-29.  Yet, this deadliest form of skin cancers is nearly 100% curable when caught early.

While virtually anyone can become a victim of melanoma, some are at greater risk than others.  If any of the following describe you, it is even more imperative to proactively protect your skin.  These include:  anyone exposed to large amounts of sunlight or tanning beds; a personal or family history of melanoma; fair complexions or red hair and anyone with a history of moles/large pigmented blemishes. 
 
While my expertise is women’s health and not dermatology, I do know enough about Melanoma to provide tips on what we might do to manage the risks for melanoma that everyone can do: First, protect yourself from the harmful effects of the sun.  Cover your skin and/or wear a sunscreen with at least sun protection factor of 30 and whose label says it provides broad-spectrum protection from both UVA and UVB rays.  Second, wear a hat, preferably one with a visor or rim that protects your face, as well as your head.  Third, check yourself regularly for changes in moles or anything else that looks suspicious.  Don’t overlook your scalp—ask your stylist or barber to check it whenever you have a hair appointment.  And, fourth, see a medical professional annually for a full body scan or more frequently if you have an unusual growth or change in a mole or growth.

There is a great article on beinggirl.com on practicing safe sun. Check it out as, it could save your life or someone you know and love – literally.

http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/articledetail.jsp?ContentId=ART568&utm_source=wordpress&utm_medium=NursePlummer&utm_content=link20110510&utm_campaign=comm_mgr

Back to the prom: for those that are getting ready for the big dance or helping their child prepare. Please, please, please focus on the beauty of jewels, the matching tux, after prom activities and the big DATE, not on the need to tan the skin. Have fun and I am looking forward to hearing prom stories!

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My Brush With Incontinence

May 3, 2011 by nurseplummer Leave a Comment

I have blogged before about incontinence talking specifically about stress incontinence. This blog will be more about the other kind of common incontinence, Urge Incontinence. Below is a definition that I copied from WebMD that provides a succinct, easy to understand definition:

Stress incontinence and overactive bladder (OAB) are the main causes of incontinence. Stress incontinence, which is more common in women, causes urine to leak when you laugh or cough. Overactive bladder, also called urge incontinence, is caused by urinary muscle spasms that cause an urgency to urinate. Incontinence can also be caused by multiple pregnancies, being overweight, and genetic weaknesses.

The reason that I am posting today is that three weeks ago I had major back surgery. For weeks before, along with intermittent excruciating back pain for years and based on an MRI and an x-ray, I was scheduled for back surgery, which I truly welcomed. The surgery was supposed to take an hour and my plan was to take a week to recover and then onto my usual life happenings. WELLLLL that isn’t the way it turned out.

My simple surgery turned into a 3-hour complex removal of old scar tissue in my lumbar 4-5 area; most likely from a previous back surgery 10 years ago, along with removal of bone pressing on nerves. WHOOO HOOO!! Needless to say, when I awoke from the anesthesia I had a lot of stuff happening that I hadn’t planned. During surgery, my doctor found that scar tissue and bone had been pressing on the sac that contains nerves to my bladder and bowel area. The sac tore during my surgeon’s effort to remove the bone that was adhering to the sac. Not his fault, as I truly believe that there was no way to do that without a tear.

Now the fun part (I am being sarcastic): As I came out of the foggy mess of anesthesia I could feel I had a very full bladder. Not a surprise, since I had a lot of IV fluids and didn’t have a urinary catheter. In any case, I pulled the call button for some help, since I couldn’t maneuver the IV stand and all of the technology I was hooked to on my own. You have to know, that being a nurse, I sure tried. Even though help came rapidly, it wasn’t fast enough. When I stood up for the first time, I peed on myself and on the floor. Along with that, and quite scary too, my bottom was numb. It was kind of like the feeling you get when you sleep on your arm or lay funny on your leg and then there is tingling as the sensation returns. Talk about feeling totally helpless and frightened.

As I began to understand more about what I was going to have to manage, I just shook my head and thought that this isn’t going to be easy. While I couldn’t feel my bottom, I could tell when my bladder was full. Perhaps, I could control my bladder after all. I could and can fortunately. However, there were still some tenuous moments when my bladder would become full and I worried about whether I would make it to the bathroom in time. So far I have.

While I am in the recovery period (and will be for 3 more weeks), I think often about those women who never regain the ability to control when they urinate. I understand their frustration and their ongoing compromise to their life. My tush area is still numb after 3 weeks and I can’t sit for very long comfortably. But every day I get more and more feeling back. Time will tell if it all comes back. I just feel so grateful that I don’t have to use pads to manage uncontrollable leaking. As I told my surgeon: before my surgery, I used to go to the bathroom so frequently that I was thinking I had an urge incontinence problem. Now it is so much better, despite the numbness that remains. Also, no more horrid pain to my leg and back as a result of compressed nerves!

A day after surgery and my notorious wetting the floor incident, I was sure I was going to have to use Always Maxi LeakGuard PLUS with Odor Lock for the rest of my life. And, I would have gladly if I needed to because nothing was going to keep me from travelling and from visiting my fabulous grandchildren. But, I don’t need to do that. However, I will always understand when someone has to go the front of the line in an event bathroom, when someone needs to use pads to manage their incontinence or when an aisle seat is needed because someone has to get up quickly to use the bathroom. Being a nurse and a fairly sensitive person, I thought I got it before. NOT LIKE NOW!!

Being an Always and Tampax women’s health expert, I was glad that I at least know and totally trust that Always products are comfortable and hold true to the advertising claims. I realize that I am being commercial, but sometimes that is ok. After all, for me, knowing there are Always products available that I can use to avoid smelling like I peed my unders was reassuring while I was dealing with the unknown. While I feel like I am doing well, I am still not 100% and appreciate the backup at times.

This is a rather personal blog, but I don’t mind sharing if it helps someone in some way. At least, please know that I get it and am always willing to listen to concerns, respond to questions and link to information that may be helpful. To that end, below is a link to Always Maxi LeakGuard PLUS with Odor Lock, should you have that need.

http://www.always.com/products/detail/maxileakguardplus?utm_source=wordpress&utm_medium=NursePlummer&utm_content=link20110503&utm_campaign=comm_mgr

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Dating Violence – Teens and Prevention!

April 10, 2011 by nurseplummer Leave a Comment

Violence against women is a topic in which I have a very strong interest. From 1995 until 2007, when I moved from Cincinnati, I was actively involved with Women Helping Women, which serves Southwestern Ohio as a unique provider of crisis intervention and support services for direct and indirect victims of sexual assault, domestic violence and stalking. I was a board member and also served as board chair for a few years during that time. Below is a link to its website where you can find detailed information on the topic as well as links to supportive national networks to direct you to local help.

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The reason I mention my involvement is because I want anyone reading my blog to know that I truly have a serious commitment to ending violence against women, not only in Cincinnati, but globally. So does Tampax and Always.

Lately, there has been coverage in the media with Ashley Judd talking about her own life-altering experience with sexual abuse. Glad she was courageous enough to share what happened with her, as there are so many women who can identify with her story and know that they are not alone. Importantly, they are NOT at fault. I blogged a while back that women tend to blame themselves for everything. Not all women, but it tends to be a female trait. Blaming ones self after having experienced an unwanted sexual encounter delays healing and moving from having been a victim to being a survivor.

There is a lot to this topic, as abuse can happen with any age group, both genders and no matter how much or little money one has. Within this blog, I will focus on teens and prevention. However, the articles that I will be linking to are appropriate for women or men regardless of age. In fact, when I was reviewing the articles again, I thought of a middle-aged friend of mine who was in a totally abusive relationship. She could benefit from reading the articles and, believe me, she WILL see them because I will send them to her. Of course, I will then reconnect so that we can talk about it.

So, how can we help our daughters – and sons – avoid being in an abusive relationship?? EDUCATION, EDUCATION, EDUCATION! Beinggirl.com is a great place to find helpful content to share with your teen on dating violence. The article that I have linked to below includes information about the types of abuse that can happen and the cycle of violence. At the bottom of the article there are links to several other articles, one on dating violence experiences, a key article on escaping abusive relationships and a third article on relationships.

Tampax and Always are brands that are in the unique position to provide helpful information to women and teens on a variety of topics through their online presence. I am proud to be associated with Brands that understand the importance of prevention, related to sexual assault and dating violence, and provide information to help break the cycle of violence. I hope you choose to read these and share with your teens, friends or anyone you believe could benefit.

http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/articledetail.jsp?ContentId=ART5&utm_source=wordpress&utm_medium=nurseplummer&utm_content=link20110410&utm_campaign=comm_mgr

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I laughed until I peed my pants; Info about Stress Incontinence

March 29, 2011 by nurseplummer 1 Comment

I was trying to find a clever and funny way to convey the definition of stress incontinence because many times when women describe to me what happens for them, they try to laugh it off. The ironic thing about stress incontinence is that it often happens during a hearty laugh and then we try to laugh about it. Actually though, there isn’t really much that is funny about a grown woman leaking urine.

In this posting, I am going to only talk about stress incontinence, though there are other kinds of urinary incontinence. ACOG, The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, published a patient brochure titled: Urinary Incontinence, which provides an excellent overview about incontinence, including definitions, causes, diagnosing and treatments. This is how stress incontinence is defined in the brochure: “In this type, a woman leaks urine when she coughs, laughs, or sneezes. Leaks also can happen when a woman walks, runs, or exercises. It is caused by a weakening of the tissues that support the bladder or the muscles of the urethra. Stress incontinence is the most common type in younger women.” Below is a link if you are interested in reading more.

http://www.acog.org/publications/patient_education/bp081.cfm

Why am I talking about this when I usually focus on periods, puberty, teens and products? First, this is something that has been talked about recently by women who I know and second, most women feel that this is something they have no other options but to accept it as a fact of their physical being. I personally hate that feeling and always believe that there must be something that can be done to help oneself when faced with a problem. It is the idea of empowerment over helplessness.

Before I offer some helpful ways to manage stress incontinence, I will relate two of the stories I heard that might sound familiar to some of you. (Both stories have been changed a bit to protect several women with enough to worry about without being outed in my blog.)

A work friend told one to me. She said that during breakfast with her husband, he told her something hysterically funny. First though, you have to picture her husband. He is kind of a gruff man who rarely says anything at all, let alone something incredibly humorous. She broke out in a hearty laugh and wet her pants through to the chair. Talk about breaking the mood – that did it!! When telling me about this, she laughed that kind of nervous laugh that says, please tell me this is funny or at least, normal and ok.

The other story was one told to me by a total stranger sitting next to me on a two- hour flight. We were doing some chit chatting about the books we were reading and she asked if I was traveling for business or fun. I politely asked her the same thing. She was on a work trip and I told her that mine was a fun, visit the family kind of travel. She also asked about the kind of work that I do and I told her that I am a RN and one of the Tampax and Always women’s health experts. Now here is where we go from superficial polite discourse that should have ended after I told her what I do. In truth, I actually wanted the discussion to end because I wanted to get back to my very good book. I didn’t even ask her what she did for a living. Like I said, the book was really, really good. However, she leaned over to me and asked if I know anything about what she could do about a recent problem she is having. The woman looked to be about 40 years old, was a bit overweight, well dressed with a designer handbag. The handbag doesn’t have anything much to do with the topic, but I always notice that. Love handbags myself. Back to the story: She proceeded to tell me that she hates to travel because if she coughs, sneezes, bends over to pick something up or just laughs she has begun to wet herself. One time she reached up to get her suitcase out of the overhead compartment and the pull of bringing her suitcase down caused her to wet herself. Now that got my attention and we spoke further about her situation.

Though often stress incontinence can be related to weakening or stretching of the support of the pelvic organs caused by pregnancy, my work friend had never been pregnant. Diagnosing the cause can be complicated so my first bit of advise is to never assume it is a sign of aging or a result of multiple pregnancies. In fact, sometimes there can be several reasons why this is happening. That is why I always emphasize the importance of discussing the problem with ones health care provider (HCP), so that an accurate diagnosis can be made. Only then can stress incontinence be managed appropriately and specifically to the cause.

Again, make an appointment with your HCP! Along with that, there are some lifestyle changes, mentioned in the brochure, which may help minimize the number of times you leak. Your HCP will probably tell you the same thing if any of these are a problem for you: Loose weight, avoid constipation, drink less fluids and limit intake of caffeine, seek treatment for frequent coughing and STOP SMOKING (I know none of us have ever heard that one before!) I suggest for further detail, link to the ACOG brochure. My goal here is to not to do another version of the Incontinence Brochure, but to get women who wet when they laugh to recognize that stress incontinence shouldn’t be laughed away.

Products that absorb: While I truly wish that NO woman had to deal with stress incontinence, it is a reality for some. To help manage the situation, I suggest taking a look at the new Always Maxi Leak Guard Plus ® and Always Dri-Liners Plus with Odor Lock ®. I have a link below if you want to know more about the Odor-Lock technology that continuously absorbs and neutralizes odors.

http://www.always.com/products/detail/pantiliner-odorlock?utm_source=workpress&utm_medium=nurseplummer&utm_content=link20110329&utm_campaign=comm_mgr

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Periods, Puberty and Products

January 17, 2011 by nurseplummer 5 Comments

In the U.S., the average age for girls to begin their menstrual periods is age 12. It is not unusual to begin as early as age 8 or as late as age 15. I don’t know about you, but when I think of a young girl of 8 starting her period, I take a deep breathe in and hope that she is prepared with information and products. While 8 years old is very young, some girls do start at an age before they (or their moms) are prepared to manage the situation.

A mother recently wrote to one of the beinggirl.com experts and asked her for help in finding the right product for her 10 year old who just started her period. She said she hadn’t had the “talk” yet and she and her daughter had no idea what product would be best for her.

First let’s start with the “talk”. As I often emphasize, the “talk” should never be a one-time spewing of information or a lecture between mom (or father) and daughter. Absolutely NOT! It should be the beginning of ongoing special interactions between the parent and child on all kinds of sensitive topics. How you address periods and products, can lead the way to a trusting bond with your daughter. After all, don’t you want to be the one she comes to when she desires information about other sensitive or embarrassing things. And daughters, if you are reading this, wouldn’t it be nice to have the type of relationship with your mom, where you can get the really, reallies from her?

Even if your daughter has started her period, you aren’t too late to be her expert. If you have the right resources, you can help her and yourself by being able to provide helpful tips on product selection, as well as what she can expect with the changes her body is going through. Take what could be a bit traumatizing and turn it into something that you share together calmly and without drama.

Make it a celebration of her. What I mean by celebration, is not getting balloons and cake, though some may do that, it means reassuring her that what she is experiencing is a normal part of growing up. She is special – to you, as her parent. I went to a meeting once where there was a speaker talking about celebrating your daughter’s first period, as an entre into womanhood, with dinner out, gifts and family announcements. Hearing this at the time, I felt kind of bad, because all I did was tell my daughter she could use tampons, since she was a swimmer, and that her period shouldn’t get in the way of life. She has managed to grow up successful, despite that less than sensitive advice and no gifts or hoopla. However, we had talked about periods before she started and she had products at her disposal. Importantly, since we had been talking, she felt comfortable letting me know she had started and seemed glad to be prepared.

A great place for mom’s to go to get information is the Always.com website. I have included a link below to the section aptly titled, “Moms”. A site designed for teens to get information and to find the answers to some of the more frequently asked questions is beinggirl.com. I have included a link to that site, as well. There is fun information on both the sites, along with free products samples. Moms, you may want to go to beinggirl.com and read some of the more frequently asked questions girls have, along with the responses developed by the beinggirl.com experts, so that you have an idea of what your daughter may want to know about and how best to address her concerns.

Take a look and let me know what you think. Also, Moms, I would love to hear about your experience when your daughter started her first period. And, daughters, what was it like for you??

http://www.always.com/mom/?utm_source=wordpress&utm_medium=NursePlummer&utm_content=link20110117&utm_campaign=comm_mgr

http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/home.jsp?utm_source=wordpress&utm_medium=NursePlummer&utm_content=link20110117&utm_campaign=comm_mgr

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